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I met a girl but . . .
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I met a girl but . . .

I know that there are many out here with severe issues and that my situation is relatively meaningless when I compare it to what others are going through.

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I am single, never-married, and have not had a girlfriend in a bazillion years. I am over 40 and that's all I'll say for now. Yes, this gets even more ridiculous. Within the past several months, I have met a woman and we have spent countless hours on the phone talking. We have also been activity partners, but it has all been very innocent. (a friendly hug here and there.) She is very much interested in me.

Here is where the problem lies: She cringes at the very idea of God and church. She understands me and just about every part of me like no one I've ever met before. She just doesn't get the "God" part. Sometimes she seems open to learn but most of the time, she just freaks out. In fact, she has even very subtly mocked me for it on a few occasions. Sometimes, she has been downright disrepectful toward others and me. Even with having said the above, this woman treats me better than 95% of the "Christian" women in the church.

To be honest, I am a little emotionally attached at this point. I don't totally understand why this person has entered my life or what I or she is supposed to learn. I am doing my best to be an ambassador for Christ, but I sense that this relationship/friendship could be a harmful one and will end in severe hurt and eventually in disaster. I'm not trying to be melodramatic. This is what I sense. I guess I need divine wisdom on my role in this relationship and if I should even be a part of it. I fear I have been making a huge mistake by letting it take the course it has taken. It's just I have been waiting faithfully for the right one for such a long time and I am trying so hard to be open-minded about the people who enter my life.

Sorry for the long post, but this could be a life-changing situation for me.

Thanks.

AGIA
03-02-2011 01:15 AM
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Dear Jesus. I pray into this situation - guide AGIA - open doors where doors are supposed to be opened and close doors where they are supposed to be closed. May he remain faithful to you first and may he shine in this girls life if it is YOUR will. May he be covered by your blood in this situation and protected. Through his actions may your light shine in her life. Amen.
Dear Jesus. I pray into this situation - guide AGIA - open doors where doors are supposed to be opened and close doors where they are supposed to be closed. May he remain faithful to you first and may he shine in this girls life if it is YOUR will. May he be covered by your blood in this situation and protected. Through his actions may your light shine in her life. Amen.
03-02-2011 01:53 AM
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RE: I met a girl but . . .

(03-02-2011 01:15 AM)Guest Wrote:  I know that there are many out here with severe issues and that my situation is relatively meaningless when I compare it to what others are going through.

Here goes:

I am single, never-married, and have not had a girlfriend in a bazillion years. I am over 40 and that's all I'll say for now. Yes, this gets even more ridiculous. Within the past several months, I have met a woman and we have spent countless hours on the phone talking. We have also been activity partners, but it has all been very innocent. (a friendly hug here and there.) She is very much interested in me.

Here is where the problem lies: She cringes at the very idea of God and church. She understands me and just about every part of me like no one I've ever met before. She just doesn't get the "God" part. Sometimes she seems open to learn but most of the time, she just freaks out. In fact, she has even very subtly mocked me for it on a few occasions. Sometimes, she has been downright disrepectful toward others and me. Even with having said the above, this woman treats me better than 95% of the "Christian" women in the church.

To be honest, I am a little emotionally attached at this point. I don't totally understand why this person has entered my life or what I or she is supposed to learn. I am doing my best to be an ambassador for Christ, but I sense that this relationship/friendship could be a harmful one and will end in severe hurt and eventually in disaster. I'm not trying to be melodramatic. This is what I sense. I guess I need divine wisdom on my role in this relationship and if I should even be a part of it. I fear I have been making a huge mistake by letting it take the course it has taken. It's just I have been waiting faithfully for the right one for such a long time and I am trying so hard to be open-minded about the people who enter my life.

Sorry for the long post, but this could be a life-changing situation for me.

Thanks.

AGIA

I'll never been married 'till now and I think I understand you AGIA,a little at least.
It is very important to have wisdom from the Lord because only Him know the heart of a man or woman.
Dear Lord,please give us wisdom with whom to be friends,please bring light in our minds that we can be sure whom is Your will to married with, because The Lord knows the hearts.
Thank You Lord.

Warrior Blessed and holy are those who share in the first resurrection.For them the second death holds no power, but they will be priests of God and of Christ and will reign with him a thousand years.
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03-02-2011 04:44 AM
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Jesus, I pray that You lead this girl to You. I aks that You use AGIA to win this girl for you & that if it is Your Will, then they can grow in You together. If it is Your will. Then allow them to be married. If it's not Your will, then please help AGIA find the soulmate that you have for him. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.
03-02-2011 09:50 AM
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Dear Havenly Father The Kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in Heaven forgive us are sin as we for give are debtor and lead us not into temptiation but deliver us from evil Please answer this person prayer acord to your will and bless there life Lord and we give you all the honor,glory, and priase to whom all power belong. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN

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John 14:14 If you ask Me anything in My name, I will do it.
04-06-2011 12:50 PM
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Lord depart from this wesite all who come here to advertise evil things, or post things that are not from you. May they come to repentance and accept you as their Lord and Savior, in Jesus mighty name I pray, amen.
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Lord take control of this situation. Have Your way.
Tell Agia clearly what You want him to do. Heal him fully. May he know how deeply You love him. Deliver him. Convict this woman whether it be Your will for them to be a couple or not.
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