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divorcing after 24years marrriage
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divorcing after 24years marrriage

my husband of 24years has moved out 2 days before christmas without saying anything to me or our grown children. I came home and all of his stuff was gone. I am so devestated i still love my husband so much, i cant understand why or how he could leave our marriage after being together for 30years and married 24. We have been going through problems for about 6 years mostly because he started going through a change of life. Our adult children are so upset with what he has done and dont want nothing to do with him. my husband says hes willing to not speak to them, he also says when there grown men they will come around in speaking with him.I have expressed my love and feelings towards him, but he says he doesnt believe i can love him. I have become very depressed, unable to function at all. Im not sleeping or eating I've lost 10# and cry 24/7. In january i was served with divorce papers. Ive asked him if this is what he really wants and he says YES. It has to be done he doesnt want anything to do with me. He said he just wants to move on, and hit the restart button. He is a christian and has said he made his peace wiht god, and god is speaking to him to do this. I pray to god to save my husband and guide him to opening his heart to me, and to give us a chance to work on our marriage. I feel like im dying, i miss everything about my husband. he wont even accept my calls im on the reject list. If he does accept my calls he only wants to talk about the divorce.
02-13-2014 09:23 AM
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RE: divorcing after 24years marrriage

I am praying with you!
Comfort me with Your love O God
Wrap me up in Your strong embrace
Shelter me from the storm O Lord
Envelop me in Your tender care

By day I pour out my heartbreak to You
By night I give you my racing thoughts

In You I take refuge
In You I will not be afraid
For you hold me strong, You hold me safe

Calm my fearful heart O God
Still my anxious mind O Lord

For all my life is found in You
All my being is given to You
All my hope begins in You
-By Imran Saleem
02-14-2014 04:18 AM
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PLEASE, PLEASE, save me from this paiin and hurt that im feeling,give me strentgh to go on today. I'm trying to be strong for my adult boys who are 27,22,and 19 years old. They fear for my health, due to the fact im not eating,sleeping or doing everyday activity. My boys tell me i need to move on and forget about their dad, since he has moved on with his life. I can't seem to do that, I will continue to fight for my marriage for as long as I'm breathing. When I married my husband my vows meant everything to me. What happen to the vows "for BETTER or for WORSE" Does that not mean anything? I miss my husband so much, I can't give-up on my husband. My love for him is so strong, even though he has done horrible things to me. I will continue to pray for my marriage, for my husband whom i love so deeply. God in heaven save my husband from evil, open his heart and let him know i love him, I think about him everyday,I miss him terribly and I'm waiting with open arms for his return. AMEN
02-14-2014 08:14 AM
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Lord God, bless this woman, give her strength. Lord, you can solve everything. Bring the husband back home where is place is. He has given a promise to this woman on the day they got married. Touch his heart with love.
Lord, show you power and love. Thank you that you see into every heart. Amen.
02-15-2014 04:05 AM
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God please tell me what did i do wrong? Am i a bad person? Why am i going through such horrible pain in my heart and soul.I have always tried to do right, and i thought I was a good person.I m drowing in pain and agony. Iam loosing my sanity god.everything is against me now god.Cant go on anymore. Ive been praying for my husband of 24years to come home. I prayed and prayed and prayed to save my husband from evil spirits. I had faith,hope and dreams of being rejoiced with my husband. Im starting to believe iam not suppose to be happy.
I found out yesterday, my husband is having an affair. I saw with my own eyes him hugging and kissing this other person. Why god why? I have always been faithful to my husband. I never imagined this happening to us. I didnt ever want to loose faith in my husband that i love so much, i planned and wanted to be with him for eternity.
god, i cant do this, i have no more strentgh in me to go on
02-15-2014 06:26 AM
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Father I ask that you will restore my marriage and the marriage of all others in request and need. Restore the love for our spouses that have lost it, have a desire to move on, and think seperation or divorce are the answers. We need you Father to block, bind, and rebuke the attacks Satan is trying or has formed against our Marriages. No weapon formed against my marriage shall prosper. I pray that you will open your ears unto our cries and save all marriages in need right now Father. I pray for strength and comfort for those of us in need, and that you will unharden the hearts of our spouses that can't find forgiveness or compassion in them. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.
02-25-2014 11:43 AM
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I want everyone to know that God always answers prayers!!!!...we need to learn to stay quiet and be still and listen. Regardless of anyone's religion. Do all types of prayers...Reach out to everyone so more positive prayers are sent out. Give gratitude even if you see the impossible. With faith and belief ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. Visualize and believe that you have reconciled. continue praying with gratitude!!!!Meanwhile look inside yourself and change and work on yourself. Inside and out....No one is bad.....no one deserves pain and suffering. We all need to be humble and you will all see how miracles will begin to occur. This is from someone who has been there. Knowing that God has already answered your prayers. Just please pray with gratitude not with desperation. Bless you all!!!!!!
03-03-2014 10:14 AM
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Heavenly Father I come to You in agreement with these precious ones that are in prayer for this sisters broken marriage. Lord I pray that You would touch this marriage and restore it back to the bonds of love and trust that once existed. Give this dear one strength as she stands in faith for the restoration of her marriage. Lord touch the heart of her husband and soften it towards the loving wife of his youth. Cast his eyes back once more to his home and the one that love and waits for him.

I pray this in Jesus precious name

Amen
03-03-2014 02:05 PM
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