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Ive been separated from my husband since he left me 7 weeks ago. During this time he has served me with divorce papers.we've been married 24years and I still love this man.I have been praying for both of us. I never wanted separation and i definitly didnt want divorce. He is a christian, believes he is doing what god wants him to do. says hes been very happy and god is speaking to him to do this. ??????? How is this possible to my understanding god loves marriage, and does not want divorce but does alllow it. We were married in a chapel, my husband also feels since we were not married through god in church and didnt follow gods way in marriage, it is not a sin to have a relationship with someone else. I on the other hand beleive it is a sin since we are still legally married.I have asked him if there is someone else hes interested. and just came out and asked him he does have a girlfriend... he doesnt answer the question.
On valentines day I seen my husband with another woman who appears to be 20 years younger than me. I'M SO DEVESTATED MY HEART IS BROKEN. I CAN'T BELEIVE MY HUSBAND WOULD OR COULD DO THIS TO US. He doesnt know i seen him with this person. I want to tell him what i know. I'm not sure how to tell him. So devestated I just collapsed to the ground when i seen this with my very own two eyes.
02-16-2014 08:36 AM
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Heavenly Father I come to You in prayer for this broken sister whose marriage is in deep trouble. Grant her a double portion of Your peace that passes all understanding Father. Grant her strength and wisdom and insight as well. I pray that You would give her wayward husband no peace with this other woman. Convict him of his sinfulness in this regard and turn his heart first back to You and then to his loving wife of 24 years. Restore this marriage Lord and give this dear sister patience to wait upon You. No matter what Lord help her to know that You are always with her and will never forsake. People may hurt and fail us but You never do Oh precious Lord.

I pray this in Jesus precious name

Amen
02-16-2014 02:03 PM
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Please pray for me,I'm feeling so depressed and lost. I miss my husband so very much, my heart is in shambles. I feel very weak and I dont want to give up on my marriage. Everything in me is saying to fight and not to loose faith. My husband is beating me down, when he tells me how happy he is since he has left me. I pray for him to open his heart up to me and, to remember the love we shared. God open his eyes let him see what he is doing is a sin. Lead him back to you for only you can save him.
My heart is in shambles more so now, ever since I seen him hugging this other person on valentines day. I still havent told him i seen them together. Dont know how much more i can take. Please god help me, give me strenght to go on.guide me in the right direction show me the way. Im so very lost.
I have to respond to the divorce papers today!!!!!
Trying to be hopeful, so emotionally drained I keep holding on to my marriage. As time goes by without the love of my husband, and without seeing him or evening him wanting to speak with me im loosing hope. I dont want to feel that way. God please continue to look over me and help me get through this difficult time in my life. Amen






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02-17-2014 09:34 AM
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