My husband is mentally ill. We've only been married 1yr -I did not know of his illness. He is verbally abusive, witholds love & lies. He is very self-centered & critical. He told me today he wants me out - gone out of his life. He is also leading worship in our new church but the Pastor does not know of how he is. He threatened to leave the church if I try to counsel with our Pastor. He owes me money that I spent on his house from my inheritance and he won't give it back -so I can't leave. My heart is broken but I'm trusting God for His will to be done.[/color][/font]