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blbblair Offline
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My Marriage

Please pray that God will remove any doubt that my husband may have concerning the ex-girlfriend. They have known each other since grade school but were in a relationship for 8 yrs during 1983 - 1991. They have a 23 yr old son. My husband and I have been together since 1993. We have been married almost 3 yrs now. We were living together since 1994. We decided to get married because we knew that it was wrong to sleep together without being married and it was wearing on us. We love each other unconditionally. The ex-girlfriend has always been waiting in the wings and trying to poison our relationship since 1993. She had succeeded in 2008 when my husband was having a midlife crisis. He left me and moved in with her. My husband and I never fight, we are best friends. So you can see how devastated I was when he left last September. Since then my husband has been going back and forth with the idea of being with her. We are now living with my parents, which is a strain for everyone. The ex-girlfriend keeps reminding my husband how uncomfortable it is for him there and he should move back in with her and help her pay her rent etc. I told my husband I can not live the rest of my life with this woman interfering with our marriage. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but something keeps him attached to her. They always fight and he has caught her in many lies but keeps on believing her again. She is very dangerous. There is a scripture in the bible that describes this woman (proverbs 5:3-4)
For the lips of an adulteress drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;
but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.
She knows how to make him feel sorry for her. She can be very nice at times and reads the Bible alot. She is always throwing scripture at him, but at the same time telling him to divorce me to be with her. She wants him to live with her now, even though he is still married and she thinks God has brought him back to her. I do not want to hate this woman. I pray for her but it gets hard at times because I know it is the devil using her. I know we do not fight against flesh & blood. I just want this whole thing to end. Me and my husband need a new start. He has asked me and I have truly forgiven him. I love him unconditional. We want a new start without this woman in the mix. I pray God removes her completely and send her husband that he has for her. I know she would leave my husband alone if she had a man of her own. I am trying to be a good christian woman. I am trying to keep my focus on God. I know God wants me to have love for this woman because we are all his children and he loves us all the same. I don't want to have any ill feelings for her but its hard when you know somebody willfully wants to destroy your life for their personal gain. I know Gods word it true and he does not lie. We have to be very careful because Satan is a very clever deceiver. I can only stand on the word of God for my life. This is what I can base my life on, nothing else. God is so worthy of all our praise no matter what is going on in our lives. Thank you God for everything.
06-04-2009 07:11 AM
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Lord, I pray for your presence in this relationship. I pray for the work of the Holy Spirit stir within her husband and his ex-gf. I pray for conviction of their action. Let there be no peace in this adultery relationship. I pray for your mercy that you spare them for their sins. I claim your promise over our sister marriage as you promise in your word to bless her and her marriage. I believe in your word and you are faithful to your word. And you will bring it to pass. In Jesus I pray Amen!
06-05-2009 02:17 AM
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Dear Lord

Please place your hand in this marriage and make it right.

Bring this husband back to her where he belongs.

Please make his ex girlfriend know that what she is doing is wrong and this man belongs with his wife and forgive her, her sins.

Stop satan from destroying this marriage.

Lord until you bring her husband back for good be with this lady as she needs you.

In your name I pray
Amen
06-05-2009 02:26 AM
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My dear soul, I have only read a portion of your prayer request. I had to stop to write what the Holy Spirit is giving me right now.
I read that you say your love with your husband is unconditional. You said that you both decided to marry rather than burn? So, your husband is well aware of the consequences that his actions will bring upon him. My dear soul, ask God to strengthen you to stay focused on "Him" and not on the actions of your spouse. You cannot be responsible to the actions of another. But, you are responsible for your own actions. Now, there are times when you must keep your mind on the spiritual and away from the natural. This is one of those instances. Allow our Lord's Holy Spirit to overshadow your thoughts. Let "Him" be number one in your life. Let Him comfort your soul. It is God's love that you need more than anything else in this world. Now, I understand that you love your husband, but your husband must love you with a spiritual heart as well. You see, when a man is running around on you, he can't love you unconditionally. You see, there is a condition on your love. You want him to love you exclusively. There is no woman of God, that wants to share her husband with another woman.
In saying that, you want to be his wife and he should be "your" husband. But, if he continues to be outside of the ark of safety of God, he must be ready for the consequences of his actions.
You must keep your mind on doing the will and the work of God. If your husband chooses to fall by the way side, pray for him and do not lose sight of where God wants you.
God has good things for His children. Hold your head up, boast in the goodness of our Lord!
He will see you through. Do not be bogged down with the cares of this world. This is only temporal, God is eternal.

Father God,
I hold this marriage up to you. I know that you hate broken families and sin, for You are a God of LOVE AND HOLINESS. Open the eyes of this husband. Allow him to see the error of his ways. Let him turn to you, seeking forgiveness for his wickness. Allow him to have a full understanding of Your word. Let him know that the wages of sin is death. Father, I thank you for hearing this prayer, I ask this to be answered in Jesus Holy name. Amen!
Be blessed in the Lord, keep trusting Him to comfort you day and night!
06-05-2009 11:53 AM
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