I am a Christian and know I should always have hope, but I'm feeling really hopeless now. My marriage is in severe crisis and I am devastated. My husband has been talking on the phone to another woman for hours at a time and now that I know he just says there is nothing to it and he's not five and I can't tell him who to talk to. He has done all of this talking away from me and was not telling me about the calls, therefore I really feel it is not innocent. Please pray for me and for him and that I will have the wisdom to know how to deal with this. If I didn't have kids, I'm not sure I'd keep going on with the marriage or my life.

I am so sorry. you are in so much pain. God knows where you are and He loves you so much. I prayed for you, your husband and the woman he's talking to. Thank the Lord you are a Christian. This means you are a child of God. Get out your Bible and read it. Focus on God not on your problems. God is in control.