I ask for help in praying for my husband. We got into a very heated and ugly argument last monday, it's almost been one week since then and he has been dangling the idea of leaving, that he wants to separate, he even showed me several apartments. I have an 8 month old baby. He says he will only help with half, that he can't deal with me anymore. This is NOT RIGHT BEFORE THE EYES OF THE LORD. he hasn't apologized once, or even formally come to his me to apologize for hurting me emotionally and even physically. we've been having an up and down week and I've been trying to be a strong woman in front of him and for our son but I can't do it anymore. The moment of weakness came last friday when he approached my car and told me that he told his mom that we were officially separating. What's worse is that he says it with such tranquility while I'm dying inside. It pains me that he takes it so calmly. We have a baby. I went after him and he sped the truck, almost running me over. PRAY FOR SALVATION IN MY HUSBAND'S HEART. He isn't acting as the head of the home as God has intended. He walks around with pride and even told me that he's doing this so that I can learn my lesson. Is he God? I ask for justice from the Lord above because I know that I am not perfect but I do not deserve to be punished by a carnal man, my husband who doesn't even follow in The Lord's footsteps. Help me pray that God softens his hard heart and open his eyes to his mistakes not ONLY MINE!!! I know mine, I pray for mine. I know I am nothing.

Lord, create in this man a clean heart and renew a right spirit within him. Show him where his attitude and thoughts are not what You would have them to be, especially toward his wife. Convict him when he is being unforgiving. Help him to let go of any anger, so that confusion will not have a place in his mind. Help him change his behavior, enable him to make changes that last. Enable him to be the head of his home and family. Renew this couple's love for one another. Heal their wounds. Give them patience, understanding, and compassion. Help them to be loving, tenderhearted, and courteous to each other. Bring them to a new place of unity with one another. Give them words that heal, not wound. Fill their heart with Your love so that it overflows through their speech. Convict his heart. Help him be the man and husband that You want him to be. In Jesus' name, Amen.

(I recommend the book The Power of the Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian)

Abba Father please help us in our families to be consistent in giving tender loving care & attention so that our home become a sanctuary of love & a haven of hope, a place of refuge & rest. With Your Spirit help us all to create a home with love, to build a love that last, to leave a legacy of love. When conflict come help us to fight fair, to communicate with kindness & be peacemakers. Help us to let our conversation be always full of grace seasoned with salt & help us to know how to answer everyone.
God of patience & consolation help us all not to let any unwholesome talk come out of our mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. May the word of our mouth & the meditation of our heart be pleasing to You O Adonai, our Rock & our Redeemer.
Abba Father help us with our goal to leave a legacy of love. Infuse in us a love that endures long, a love that is patient & kind, a love that never envious nor boils over with jealousy, Infuse in us a love that is not boastful or vain glorious, that does not display it naughtily. A love that is not conceited, arrogant & inflate with pride. infuse in us a love that it not rude unmannerly & does not act becomingly. Your's love in us who does not insist on its own rights, or its own way for it is not self- seeking, it is not touchy or fretful or resentful. God of love & peace empower us with a love that takes no account of evil done to us, that it pays no attention to a suffered wrong. Infuse in us with a love that does not rejoice at injustice & unrighteousness but rejoices when right & truth prevail. A love that bear up under anything & everything that comes, who is ever ready to believe the best of every person, Infuse us with a love that hope, endure all things under all circumstances without weakening. Help us to leave a legacy of love. Your Kingdom come, Your will be done, Yours is the Kingdom, the power & the glory forever.