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I feel so responsible and cannot forgive myself
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I feel so responsible and cannot forgive myself

My daughter was dying from drug use and wound up in the ICU for a week before being locked up for mental health problems. I was forced to remove her small daughter from her and turn her over to my daughter's ex husband, the father. They divorced about 3 yrs ago and it was ugly and hateful and the hatefullness drove my daughter to self destruct. Since her ex-husband has taken temporary custody of their daughter my family sees very little of her. On occasion the ex allows her to come to our home but most of the time the ex husband ignores my phone calls and we never get to see her. My daughter is now better and has received the professional help she needed. The ex husband is now trying to take their child away from my daughter permanently. He is still very hateful to my daughter and does not seem to want to forgive her. I am asking for prayer for my daughter to remain strong. I am asking for prayer for the Lord to touch the ex husbands heart so that he will let my daughter see her child. I ask for prayer for the ex husband to allow us to see our grandchild. I am asking for prayer for the Lord to soften the ex husband's heart so he is not so hateful and mean. I am also asking for prayer for the guilt I feel in that I was the one that took the grandaughter away from my daughter even though I had no choice at the time I feel horrible. I am asking for peace in this situation between all parties involved and most of all that my grandaughter who is losing her connection to my family and my daughter be taken care of by the Lord and somehow have her know that she is loved by our family too, including her own mother who she is being kept from.
11-17-2010 10:29 PM
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Father we come to you today and give praises. You said anything you need have faith. I ask you to come into this family heart father and strengthen them. Take this anger and hatred off this father heart because it take a village to raise a child. God your people have done so many things in your sight and yet you still forgive us because you love us. God bless this family right now and give peace to the grandmother that is coming to you humbly and wholeheartedly. satan has no power father and he knows his days are short. Give peace to the daughter that her old habits are behind her Father. She needs you now more then ever. I love you father and their is no other god but you Father. Bless this family God, in jesus name. AMEN
11-17-2010 11:23 PM
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Precious Jesus, I lift this family up to you. Precious Jesus, heal the hurts that have been done in this situation. Lord, let this dad see that the mother has changed. Lord, let the mom and grandparents be able to be a part of this childs life. Lord, protect this little one. Put a hedge of protection about her. Lord, I pray that Your will be done. I pray that You will lead & direct her paths. I pray that someone is teaching her about You. In this I ask in Your name,Jesus.Amen.
11-18-2010 02:51 AM
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Father, thank you that you saw fit to put this daughter in a situation where she could get the help she needs to heal and reclaim her sobriety. Father her first mission must be to stay on the path you have led her to that she may come to know her value in your eyes and live a life of dignity. Please in your mercy keep her on this path and let her live a righteous and good life. Father touch this ex-husband and cleanse him from his anger, prideful judgment and unkindness. Father help him to understand that no matter what he feels, this child was delivered from the belly of this mother and is as much hers as his. Father, give him the mind of Christ that he might forgive and encourage the love between this mother and child to grow and for the hurt in both of their hearts to heal. Show him that he can not be forgiven if he refuses to forgive. Help this grandmother to understand that she did what was best...best for her granddaughter and best for her daughter. If she had not, this child could have been seriously compromised and this daughter would not be on the road to healing. Let her believe in her heart that it was a right and just decision and let her stand for what is right and just all the days of her life. Father bring healing and Agape love to all involved in this situation that your power and glory will be seen and praised. In Jesus name...Amen!
11-18-2010 05:29 PM
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Dear Lord,please have mercy on this family.
In the Name of the Lord,right now I command to all the power of darkness and the curses to leave this family! Now!
I pray that Your will to be done in their lives.
You are the King of kings and Your Name is Wonderful.
Thank You my Lord

Warrior Blessed and holy are those who share in the first resurrection.For them the second death holds no power, but they will be priests of God and of Christ and will reign with him a thousand years.
09-29-2012 04:22 AM
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THIS PRAYER REQUEST IS FROM YEAR 11-17-2010 10:29 PM.
09-29-2012 09:10 AM
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