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bblair
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my family
my husband has been having an affair for a little over a year with his exgirlfriend who he has known for over 40 yrs. They have a 23yr old son. Me and my husband have been together (lived with each other) almost 17 yrs. We have been married 3 yrs. He says he is not sure if he should have got married. My husband is like two different people now. I can tell when he has talked to her or been around her, because he gets a cocky attitude with me. Not only is she trying to steal my husband but also he is my best friend. My son has emotional problems partly due to his father leaving us. He has moved back and forth now for over a year. I miss the man I married. He shows himself once and awhile and tells me he would never leave me for her and then later in the evening he wants a divorce. Me and my husband never argue . We only argue now because of her. She believes God brought him to her. She wants him to divorce me and marry her. She uses the race card because both my husband and her are African American. I am caucasian. My husband says he never looked at me as being white.He said he doesn’t see color with me. But being around her has made him look at me differently. He struggles with his love for me and his infidelity. He told me the Holy SPirit told him from the beginning not to mess with her. He even recently said God has shown him things and that he has a good wife and he is not going to ruin his marriage. Then the very next day after moving his belongings back home, he gets a phonecall on the phone she gave him. The phone he was suppose to return. Thats how I found out he was still with her. Had a argument, cried my eyes out again, (the pain doesn’t go away). I keep on trusting him because deep down I believe my husband does want to stay married. I do believe he loves me. Satan is using this woman to destroy our marriage and family.. My husband even joined her church. They act like they are married when they are together. Satan is such a liar he comes only to steal, kill and destroy. I believe God is going to use my family for his GLory. That is why the devil is trying so hard. My son maybe bipolar. I do not get a brake from my emotions. If my husband isn’t hurting me watching my son deal with his pain kills me inside. It seems like everyday is something new. My nerves are shot, my emotions are frazzled but I continue to pray for them . This is a fight to the very end. If I give up on them than what happens. I know God has everything in control. I still need to petition them to GOd. The devil is such a liar trying to make me believe God is giving my husband to her. That somehow they belong together. It sounds good but it doesn’t line up with the word of God. God said, whatever God joins together let no man put asunder. God hates divorce. Both me and my husband are christians and were christians at the time of our marriage. I want my family restored and am standing on the word of God for the restoration. Never ceasing in praying for my family. God Reigns. He still is the creator of this universe. He alone is God. I will praise him through my troubles. Devil you may have knocked me down a few times but I keep getting up and one day that uppercut is coming to you and Im knocking you down with my Daddys help. You have no control or dominion over my family they belong to God.
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| 12-15-2009 03:32 PM |
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