Well happy new year me and my wife have talk and she wants a divorce she just told me last night that when I had an affair 13 years ago she did also but have a affair 11 y ears ago I was so stun because all these years she has been acting like she never did anything wrong in this marriage. Since this happen with me starting a relationship while I was in mexico and now it has ended I have been closer to God he has showed me a lot of things. I really want my wife and me to work on my marriage with my wife I love her to life but she really wants a divorce she saids but my pastor says don't sign anything because God has not told me to move he says peace be still. I don't know what to do can someone please pray for me because I really want this to work.