Confused, Your very wise in your view I remained and to this day my sons actions are like his father towards me, if I would have know how much a child takes on their parents actions maybe I could have changed everything. one thing your are praying for a change now at 6 which I did not see, talk with your son keep enforcing and addressing the way he talks to you let him know its not what you like. he will listen you need to remember he has two parents he will take on both habits and yes finances are the main reason to never move on it for along time. The lord does hate divorce it is something you really need to read his word on but he hates abuse too, keep praying for your husband you saw good in him once or you would have never married him. Pray for a door to open for him to except Jesus into his heart, my husband never would do this he said he couldn't in front of my son with a Pastor, please take care how and when to address some things because this effected my son to this day because he really did love his dad.

Lord I lift this child of yours up and that you guide her in her daily walk with you I thank you for the heart she carries for you and the wanting to do the right thing before you, I pray that her husband comes to know you and guides his young son in the way he so go. Father I pray understanding for this woman ans peace in Jesus name.