Dear luv2luvujc,

My advice to you is this:

Whatever you do, please do not disrespect your mother and the same thing goes for your husband. This is for both of your spiritual wellbeing based on the Holy Bible.
Do not spill the words, you can not get it back once they have gone out from your mouth.

Do not let your marriage bed defiled for any reason whatsoever.

You worry about your husband finding happiness elsewhere. You can control this situation by spicing up your sexual intimacy.
If you offer your hubby the best things from you then he will not be tempted to look elsewhere. Nothing wrong in a Christin marriage to explore further in intercourse. If you lack in ideas, (most Christian's including me do) please google christian nymphos. It is a website run by Christian women for married couples; I must add it is bible based.

After going through the articles, our love making has greatly improved. I hope the same for you.
One trick is very useful is that whatever you do, do not let your hubby ejaculate. Once a man ejaculate he is no longer interested in sex, therefore you have to maximize his pleasure before he shoots, then you will find he is keep coming back for more, and he will not stray.