Paula please you have a good heart, Tim probably does care about you and parts of him love you deeply that what holds you to him, hoping he will see the light and change, Paula he needs to change for himself not you your know ones doormat. I gave you a long explaination prevously, I just don't feel God wants you broken and hurt, tell if you or I pray him back home and he is not right with the father then you will go throught this again I did it four times with someone until I realized and got in my spirit the word of God into me, yes we love with are hearts and our minds don't want to let go line them both up with the word of God and see where you go, oddly enough the ex of mine is married to one of the girls he had affairs with and is on fire for God, so the Lord used me to accomplish something for his Glory. I was hurt, confused and distraught but I keep seeking God and asking for forgiveness in my own errors. Paula just keep asking for prayer I did and I overcome even all my own weakness' Pray for your children Paula, and what God's wants Let the Lord work in Tim. you or I can do nothing but pray. You don't need others pray and ask Jesus to open the door for a dryer you will see his miracles. Amen

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Paula I see your heart, your not under anyone's feet, your to be the head and not the tail, above the feet not below. don't be discouraged.