Dear Lord Jesus,
Marriage is a holy institution between you, the husband, and the wife. Satan loves to destroy marriages inorder to break apart that union. But I know that a three-fold cord is not easily broken. So, let's start over. This time Lord, we call you to be head of this family, then the husband and then the wife and then their children, in that order. Calvin is to cover his wife and family. So let's get him in his rightful position as a man of God. There cannot be too masters in this situation. The wife has to be able to follow her husband's lead. All the constant bickering and arguing aren't helping these children at all. So, The wife has to feel that her husband is leading her in the right direction -- God's direction, for her family or she is not obligated to follow him. Lord show the husband that he is the protector of his family and that if he is out of place the whole thing falls apart -- leaving room for the enemy to come in. Which is just like saying, come on in Satan, you can have my family and do whatever you will. Lord Jesus, don't let him give up on his marriage. Help him to start putting you first in his life right now. If the two of them need to be separated while you do this work in him, then so be it. But Lord, don't let him wait till his wife decides to divorce him or not, let him begin now. Help him to start filling his mind with the truths of your word and getting to know you for himself. Attack his heart Lord. Let him begin to be the type of man he wants to be if his wife won't divorce him. Let him be that way no matter what happens, let that be his mindset. Not to do it to keep his family, but to do it to be the man God called him to be. Lord, and as he is becomming closer to you, he will begin to see the wonderful changes that are starting to happen in his life as well. In his marriage and with his children and especially in his dependence on you. Fix it Lord. Let him love you more, than anything and than anyone and all this will work out extremely well for all of them. Bless you Lord Jesus.
In Your Name,
Amen.