What is this person coming to prayer site belittling people that are suffering? People that talk about loss, being burned by an ex husband that leaves their life turned upside down is NOT a sin. Talking about is not complaining. Complaining is repeating over & over ignoring help of any kind. It's talking about without just cause.
An elderly person talks about their aches & pains, a person that looses a spouse whether through death or divorce talks about the losses which does not mean they are complaining.
The only thing I see Paula doing that is causing her distress is reaching to her ex in calling when he does not want her part of his life. But that she talks about her loss doesn't mean she is complaining.
People that purpose to hurt others have no empathy for those that hurt or those that they hurt. They simply do not care.
I ask that Paula has the people she needs in her life to help her heal that she lets go of those that are not helping. Once she understands that she will begin to heal. But to think she will just snap of fingers heal from so much loss? She was married a long time & is devastated. It has not been long since he left. It takes time to heal.
If you don't like what she posts then don't read or reply. Maybe she is lost at the moment as to reaching back to her ex, but allow her to figure it out if need be by giving her the space to do so.. but to say she is sinning by complaining? Do you not realize that she has lost a lot?
Do you have no empathy? I feel more sorry for you that you have no regard for the genuine suffering she is experiencing. For those that are put out with the posts she makes then quit replying.
If nothing else offer a little empathy, & pray she can let go of those that do not offer her proper support, let her figure out the rest.
This not complaining that a person cannot speak of their loss is crazy.
That is not at all what God Is Speaking of. Yes, it's important to speak of the blessings, but it is normal to talk about, loss. Those that don't I would worry much more about.
God please refine this situation that Paula lets go of those that cannot help her, & protect her from the ones that seek to harm her by their words.