If she had accepted Jesus Christ into her heart, she would have been born again. It is obvious she has not just like you no comprehension what is "born again." Just because you accepted Jesus Christ into your heart does not mean you would not ask for prayer. Where did you get did philosophy? If you are so concerned about Paula, why don't you give her your phone number - call and talk to her everyday because she is desperate to have a friend to talk to rather than just typing a few notes here and there believing that you are such a holy person. I bet you would not do it.