Father, help Paula realize the difference between prayer and complaint. Father if she has nothing to do...then help her to find a place to volunteer to help others. A nursing home...a hospital, the local church, the thrift store each of these need willing hands to help. Father show her in whatever manner you see fit that she must do her part to find her joy. It will not come to her if she sits in her home and mopes about feeling neglected because others do not do as she would like them to...it will come when she begins to use her time and talents for the betterment of your people...show her Lord so that she does not waste another year waiting on others to come to her and to rescue her. Help her to feel your love and know your peace and to get into action to be an example of your love. In Jesus name...Amen!