My husband and I have been having problems for the last 12 years. We have been off again on again. He has had two kids of whom I have accepted as my own during the times we were separated and we have came back together. Alot of what has transpired between us is similar to what took place in the book of Hosea. We both have had affairs during the course of our marriage. Although we both come from families that were Chrisitan, we strayed away from the faith. Over the last seven years, I had regained my focus and have decided to become a Christian. My husband believes he is also, but he has been very much living a single life, although we are living as husband and wife. My husband has said that he wants a divorce although he cannot give me a reason why. I do not want a divorce and know many who will advise me to let him go, but that is not what GOD is showing me. Like I said, I have only recently learned how to fight for my marriage and I as well have been wrong in how I have dealt with him. I believe that my marriage could be saved (all things are possible through CHRIST), but I just need prayer for my husband to turn away from the sinful life of the world. My husband do not understand what it means to be saved or a Christian. Although, he ask GOD for fogiveness for his sins, he has not repented for many of them. He lives a life of habitual sin and think that he is a Christian. I have tried to talk to him but he sees me as being judgemental although, I don't approach him in a negative way. I have shown him scripture in the Bible, which tells us the same thing about true repentance, but he listens to his mother and brothers of which all seems to live in habitual sin and simply ask for forgiveness for the same sins they committed only a few minutes prior. For example, his baby brother refuses to marry and fornicates often. He believes all he has to do is ask for forgiveness each time. Anyway, I want my husband mindset to be different. I want him to know GODs truth of true repentence and his desire, love, and passion to return first to GOD and then to me.