Joe, I agree with the other posters on here and if you really love this girl, you will marry her according to God's Holy Word. Go get a minister of the Gospel and marry her if you want to have sex with her. Otherwise, it is not right in God's sight. As the man in this relationship, God holds you responsible for this, and to take care of this girl and her baby if she is pregnant. Read God's Word and get into a good Bible-believing church. If you love her, marry her and be a good husband to her. If not, you should not have sex with her again and ask God's forgiveness. God has these rules because He loves us and He wants to prevent us from getting hurt and to prevent innocent babies from suffering. If we ignore these rules, we will suffer and cause others to suffer. I pray for you brother, that you will do things God's way.