God wants us to save sex until marriage. It is a gift from him that should be withheld until we are marriage. That is what the word says. I am sad that you cant rejoice over a pregnancy, as that is what it should be about. Pregnancy is a consequence of sex. Children are a gift from God. I pray that you will put God at the centre of your life and that you will walk in obedience to his word, for it is for our own good and I have learnt the hard way. I pray that you will walk with God from this day on.