From what you describe it sounds like your child has ADHD. I would strongly advise that you take him to a doctor and confirm this. There is treatment for this medical as well as behavioral modifications. This would so help you and your husband to understand the problems of this child and to deal with them so much better. Most of all, pray to the Lord without ceasing for your child and for patience and help from the Lord every day. I had two sons like this and I raised them as a single mother with much patience, prayer, and help from medical professionals. They both outgrew it (were healed gradually) and one is a lawyer and the other one an engineer. Now they take care of me. Never let anything or anyone get in the way of your love and care for your children. If you do, you will forever live to regret it. God bless you and your son. A mom who knows.