Heavenly Father, Heal this marriage/family, that the test come back negative. Help this man continue to seek forgiveness, to be conscious of his act of sin (adultrey) & to never sin again in this way. Lord what we need, is YOU, YOUR LOVE, YOUR TRUTH, to walk boldly in TRUTH which is YOUR WORD. Let this man daily rejoice in the gift of his marriage & family, vow to commit to living out the vows he took. Let it be a turnaround time Jesus, that his family is priority, his marriage, "the two shall become one." Adultrey, fornication, seem so prevalant & it is very destructive. However, if one admits to a mistake then makes the changes in life it can be a time of renewal. You are far ahead many who cheat & don't admit it & feel no particular guilt or want of change.
God Bless you & your family, may your hearts be healed by HIS LOVE & TRUTH.

(06-18-2011 03:03 AM)jabj Wrote:  Fellow christians. I have been happily married for 7 years with a beautiful women and have to georgeous kids. I have everything i can ask for in life. Still, 5 week ago on a trip with friends a commited a horrible sin when i took the choice to cheat on my wife. Since that minute i have been filled with fear, anxiousnes and shame. I regret sooo much. I could not live with this in my consiousnes so I confessed it all for my wife last week.... Of course she is now suffering and find it hard to see a future with me, to ever love me again and not at least trust me. On top off all this I fear that i might have caught HIV from this insident. I have seen several symptoms related to this virus. I had a blood test done last week and will get the result this coming wednesday. Please give me a minute and pray for me and my family. That i will pass the test, that God will forgive me these sins snd that this was for me a wake up call and a chance to start from scratch again being a trustful and caring father and husband. Please also pray for my wife and that she must find strenght to carry on under these circumstances. I am so thankful for your prayers and hope for Gods blessing. Bless you all.....