lord, i lift up steve upon your hand and call you to bind steve and me together as a unity and develop our serious relationship /lead to happy marriage. father god, give us wisdom to build up our godly family and let our lips/tongues be full of loving/kind words and no corrupt words proceeding our mouths. give us time to communicate/build up intimacy together. let us open our hearts share each other's interests and discover each other dislikes/likes and talk openly and meet each other's needs.