For Shane to allow his family to live their own life in their own state and stop trying to make up for years lost so many years before we met. For him to realize that our children are most important and that he needs to appreciate the chance to be a good dad to them, to do for them and let his family live their own life. For doors of opportunity to be closed forever and for us to be able to raise our children in the state we currently are in. For God to touch his heart on me and our children going to see their only grandparents.