I so can relate to your situation and so will stand with you in prayer. Lord Jesus firstly reach out to this man and bring him into relationship with you. His treatment of this woman is NOT right, so I ask that you address this with him. Bring him to a place of repentance, forgiveness and healing....then reconciliation. Lord Jesus help Jenny to know that without salvation and healing, reconciliation will not be fruitful. I to am walking a similar path and know that GREAT patience and reliance on you is what is needed for Jenny. Grant her this, as she waits. Lord - more of you in these lives, more of you in reconciliation, more of you in the world. May you be glorified through all miracles. AMEN>