Lord you understand our tears. There are those you loved and lost, you are no stranger to our pain. Lord I know it is not wrong for us to long to be loved and give our love away. I pray that you bring healing to this broken heart. Perhaps Lord you could send this man a woman who will ease the pain and surpass this man's expetations. I know that when we do not get what we want that you always, always have something better in store for us. Let is hope not grow dim, grant him the desire of his heart. His first desire to do your will and accept it. Then Lord grant him a wife according to your good pleasure. In Jesus name I pray. Friend I would not want to be with someone who did not love me. If she does not love you than you don't really want someone like her. Put your mind at rest. Things will work out, God says it will. He brings all things together for good to those who love him.