It can be hard sometimes trying to deal with the matters of the heart. Perhaps you may not be getting answers because really the Lord would not have you to be with this girl. I know that sometimes it feels like someone is the one--they seem perfect in every way, but the Lord ultimately knows what is best for you. The Lord may know something about her that you never knew, something that ultimately would have reuined your relationship. You say that she left you all of a sudden, without warning, and she just "stopped loving you one day." What if you had been married when that happened? Imagine the heartache you would have endured then.

I know how hard losing someone you love is, especially when they choose to no longer be with you. However, looking at the positive is always the way to go. Ask the Lord what His will would be for you and who He would have you to be with. If you trust Him, your desire, which I think we both know is to find the one He has for you, will ultimately be given to you.

I hope that this has been an encouragement.

Sincerely,

Lost Love