Paula the best way to get your problems of your mind and leave in God's care is to go volunteer at some ministry in a church, Salvation Army, hospital where they give out food to homeless, and you will feel better about yourself. Try to do something like that and you will then understand why I'm telling you to do it.
God please lead Paula to a place where she can do whatever she can to help those less fortunate than she. Give her confidence and peace of mind, also restore her life with a new song. Have your perfect will be done in her life and her family's. I pray this in Jesus name, amen.