Darrell,
God bless you for the courage to place your requests for healing and restoration in your marriage. I have been facing similar difficulties in my marriage as well and I can definitely relate to your desire to have the Lord's help. Continue to stand on the Lord's promises for TOTAL restoration of your marriage. The Lord will do it. Also if I might add there is a great website I have found with scriptural prayers for marriages. It is http://www.cprmarriageministry.org. I think you will find it most helpful. God Bless You,
joelle