God brings people into our lives for a reason. I knew that my husband was the right one from the beginning. I just felt it. We have been together for 13 years now and are happily married although we have had our ups and downs and some serious problems in our relationship. Relationships take a lot of work. You cannot just sit back and wait for things to happen all of the time. Sometimes you have to make things happen. If it feels right, it is right. If it feels wrong, it is probably not meant to be. You will know.

If your heart is with someone that you do not feel is good for you "at this time", maybe you should take a step back and see how you feel. It sounds like you may need to do some work on yourself before getting into a relationship. Remember the saying "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it was meant to be". Well, there you go. God has a plan for everyone. Anyone can be your soulmate if you love them, connect with them, and grow together. Keep on praying and you will be heard. I will pray for you as well.