you said "i realy thought GOD brought us together"well if you believe it then dont stop believing.the enemy has come to tear down your marriage, so what are you going to do give up or fight.make the year 2011 a year unto which you gain knowledge on spiritual warfare and understanding of your GODLY position of authority in christ.satan is defeated and when you fully understand the power(HOLYGHOST)that is within you, you will discover that the enemy is but an ant under your feet in jesus name.different cultures? is his family serving the lord?is yours? are their any curses being passed down through family line?bottomline your marriage is coming under attack(satanic)u need to learn how to pray your way out even without your husband you can pray into a new job,have your husband adore you(put you first and not his family) and live in complete victory,i ask that you dont get a divorce but instead learn how to pray and pocessed the milk and honey of jesus.post back if you want to put on the full armour of the lord