Richard and I come from different cultures. I did not think that would impact our relationship the way it has/did. We are both Christians and I thought loved each other very much. We have been through a lot together. Although we are married, I spent a lot of time alone as he handled family matters. (Somehow his family came before our relationship ALOT.) We talked about not living as man/wife really should several times; and not being able to live like that....but nothing really changed. (A real relationship needs real time spent together). After some time apart this year, I couldn't take it anymore (after 3 years) and let him know that. His response was to seemingly disappear (at least to me); rather than make any attempts to work things out. Of course I feel confused, foolish, totally abandoned, used maybe...I have no idea what..but I am very sad. Just when I think I am ok, the sadness just overwhelms me sometimes. I really thought God had brought us together. I have prayed about this so much. In my heart given this matter to God (or at least am trying my best to). But, I can't seem to let it go and its very painful for me. Please pray for me and for Richard; that God will restore or give closure (as his will dictates);;and that it will be clear. I never wanted a divorce but don't know what else to do. I appreciate any prayers for this..weird..never thought it would happen to me situation. May God bless and keep you.