I am a single parent too and feel your pain. Please dear Jesus be with this family. Have you checked into resources/help in your area? such as "project christmas" where they give you toys and clothes for your child. Please seek help when you need it and I know you miss your man but right now you guys need to focus on "yourselves" for a little while. I say this in the kindest of ways because as a single mom I know how hard it can get.