Father, in your wisdom and love for this guest help her to understand that a man who will not commit WON'T! Staying in the relationship under these conditions is not only outside of your word but a waste of her time and energy in that she wants marriage and he does not. It ultimately does not matter whether why...it only matters that he does not. Father help this woman to move on in her life to what is good and true. Her child bearing years will easily pass her by if she continues down this road. Let her choose to wait on the man that you have for her and to keep herself under your commands while she waits. That which is outside of your word is never of you! Give her the wisdom to see this and to tell this man the truth of your word. If he accepts it and moves forward to make her his wife it is well. If he does not let her choose the righteous path to wait on you for her partner that her life may be fulfilled. In Jesus name...Amen!