Have you seen the movie fireproof? I pray Lord that you will deliver this pastor and his wife from the sins that divide and seperate them. Lord help them to ask each other for forgiveness and to re-committ themselves to God and their marriage. Lord no marriage is perfect and they are difficult for many. This man needs your help especially because he is a roll model for christians and he is to be the shephard of his flock and his family. Perhaps he has failed to be completely faithful, respectful and failed to love his wife like Christ loves the church. I pray that this couple will re-examine their hearts and give it their best to try and make it work. Not for the kids, not for themselves alone but because that is Christ will for them in marriage. Lord you said that you hate divorce. I pray you will protect this family from this terrible pain. Help the children Lord, this is a life impacting situation and their future is effected by it, including their own marriages and future children. I am sure this pastor is completely aware of the word and how it applies to his marriage, there is probally nothing one can say that he doesn't already know. Let this truth in the word of God be alive in them and let them apply this truth to their lives and marriages. convict them Lord and let your light shine into their hearts to obey your will and turn from disobiedence. In Jesus name I pray. Bless them Lord to rise above this situation and be victorious.