Our son who we have been the guardians of since he was 12 recently moved home. He is 23. He has been home for 8 months and paid rent for only 2. We asked him about 6 weeks ago to pay his rent for food and hot water. He was told he had until Nov. 1, 2010 to do something. Today he said he has no money to pay us and no where to go. He has received 3 cheques in the mail over the last 2 months from grants he received. He has not contributed on cent to help us. We want him to leave but I am afraid he will just not go and there will be a conflict. We have 2 other children left at home and think his influence is a bad example and that they will also want to take advantage of us. We are not young. 59 and 61 years old. Our daughters are 13 and 16 years old. We cannot afford to support him any longer. He does not obey the house rules, totally disrespectful about them.