I agree with you Art! In my family, 3 of us remarried the same person, with me it was through much prayer! My brother was in the same situation as you! They did marry twice, the military got in the way. Separation is so hard! She made some mistakes the last time he was gone out to sea. He had made some mistakes also, he could not tell her. I believe she felt condemned..I do agree with you in prayer! I ask father God, that you would touch the hearts of this man and woman, i pray that they would become 1, i pray they would become that mystery that is spoke of in the bible. I pray that you would have a marriage much like Song of Solomon that she would long for you and that you would become the desire of her heart & she yours! Bless you all!