Father...whisper these words to this kind young woman...My sweet girl...here is what I would suggest...pray that God will send you your Basheart...this is a Hebrew word that means your split-apart. The person who when God envisioned you at the foundation of the world...he made for you and only for you...he is the other half of you. You are very young...you will meet many young men before the one God has for you is sent to you. I have come to believe it is so that when he arrives you will have enough experience to recognize him and truly appreciate why he is the one. There is nothing to fear...you are feeling the pain...but the loss is really this young man's. I have never met you but I see your Spirit...the sweetness of it...and your purity of heart...these are extremely great gifts and rare in our world today. For now open your mind to simply start dating. Go to a movie...have dinner...enjoy a museum or a picnic in the park...go tailgating at the football game...just enjoy...love will come and when it does...you will be taken by wonderous surprise...and most of all be healed from this experience and ready to both receive it and give it! Know that you are loved by the Father and the people of God!!! In Jesus name...Amen!