I am desperate for a different situation for my family. My husband has suffered with a digestive disease long-term and it seems to finally be getting under control. As a result, I have been the main income-earner for most of our 4 year marriage. My husband had to become our daughter's main caregiver when I'm at work. We are both unhappy. He would prefer to be working and I would prefer to be taking care of our daughter, especially as we have been thinking about having another child. We just can't do it the way things are right now though. He loves our daughter but does not get the fulfillment out of being a stay-at-home dad that I feel taking care of her. God wired men and women a certain way and my husband and I are both suffering emotionally and spiritually with this mismatch. We don't see a way out of it at this juncture and it is straining our marriage. Please pray for us. I don't know what to do. Today in particular I am so sad about it. We do the best we can with where we are at but we want to be in the other's shoes. Daddy, help, help, help. Please hear my plea! Grant N (my husband) a great paying, fulfilling job, and send me home to care for our house and family and my husband. I hate it here at work although I am grateful we have the income. There is so much more we are meant to do and our souls cry out for. Please, please deliver us from this situation and give us hope. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.