Father, help this woman to understand that this friend is a very immature man...and more red flags are presenting. Why is it that all of his friends are woman? While this "girlfriend" may not be handling things with him well, no woman would feel secure in a relationship if all of the friends in his life were women. A man that is mature understands this and changes the way that he interacts with other woman when he moves into a committed relationship. Putting a man first after God requires that he do the same...and that means letting go of friendships that his woman is uncomfortable with. While his interaction with you has been above board...if you were his girlfriend how would you feel if all of his friendship time was spent in the company of other women? I share this because it is important that you be balanced in your perceptions of this situation. I think that you are looking at this "girlfriend" through the eyes of your feelings for this man, without considering that his own behavior/choices may indeed be contributing to stress in his relationship. When we choose to be in exclusive relationships with others...they need to BE exclusive to allow the relationship to grow in a healthy way. Does that mean that we cannot have friends? No that is not what that means...but it is highly unusual when a young man has no male friends with whom he fellowships regularly and instead they are all female.

One of the things that I discern is that this man is not ready for a relationship with ANYONE as this type of interaction would make any woman feel uncomfortable. Consider this...you are happy to be spending time with him, but if you were writing your own script for the situation...I think you will agree...you would be the girlfriend in the picture...and I am certain some of his other "friends" feel the same way. A "girlfriend" picks up on such things because of the way woman who are interested in a man act. How would you feel under the same conditions? I would not be so quick to judge her as this type of behavior is not appropriate for any man who wants a committed relationship...and suggests that he simply enjoys the attention of a lot of different woman. This is NOT the model for Christian dating... Consider these things as they are not the character traits that make for a good mate, In Jesus name...Amen!