Thank you all for your prayer support guys. I am feeling a bit calmer about it now. You are right Guest that Gods word is the measure to us. I even wanted my guidance from God and not through man. I have received some guidance through man which I was comfortable with (I am able to discern well at times). I even had a real inner feeling I knew Gods will about it, I felt real joy. But then I listened to a really biased person and it threw me completely. The trouble with this particular teaching is it is very open to interpretation. I have had guidance from the spirit which has been positive, but for this one I think it is going to be a search. Hey ho!!