Father, there is something in this man's spirit that needs healing, something that has been deeply wounded and angered. The spirit of unforgiveness is deeply rooted in his heart. I ask that you draw this man to you and touch his heart that he may know the peace of forgiving this wife. Help him Father to understand that he cannot be forgiven if he does not forgive. In your loving kindness for this man...let him develop the desire to spiritually lead and teach this woman as her spiritual head, not condemn her. Father, show Mp71 your will for her life at this point. Help her to understand that sometimes we can do nothing...that the urge to do, to take control when we are very capable as people, is part of how we arrive at these types of valleys in our lives. In the natural we want to DO something but in reality, we can do nothing...we as women cannot make our men return...we cannot make them do anything. So our focus must be on ourselves and our relationship with you because those are the only things within our power to address. Help her to draw close to you and continue to pray for this man to heal and to grow in you Father. Help her to focus on the things within herself that she wants to change to be qualified to be a Godly wife...and to change them independent of whether this man returns or not. Help her to trust that you knew at the foundation of the world, eons before her birth that this time would come and you made provision for it...regardless of the outcome. Father help her to become a vessel of love even when people do not act very lovable...as this is what you have done for us. Father...help her to stand. In Jesus name...Amen!