Dear Sister in Christ, Thank you for sharing your feelings with us so we can pray and believe for you. I think that I do understand where you coming from. Sometimes it could be really frustrating when we have to wait upon God and we don't see anything happening. I'm sorry that you feel that there is no one out there to love you. But I'm sure there are enough of God's children in this world who could fall in love with you at the first sight. But God knows what is best for us and who will take care of you and your family the way God wants. But of course it will be in God's perfect timing. You know what; you have been there for 16 years and you are just around the corner for his promise. You have come this far and God has seen your faithfulness. in the coming days he will open the doors that no one can shut for you. Remember Jeremiah 29:11 (For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.)
Dear Sister, your Son and your Father may have special needs, but lord have given you special gifts. (If you think deeply). Therefore let me encourage you. You are not alone in this world because holy spirit is in you comforting you. I suggest that you believe with me that God will show himself to you in a whole new way and let you see a miracle in the coming days and all this sad feelings will be history and realise his glory.

Father God, Thank you for this Lady and her faithfulness. thank you for all the gifts that you have pored in to her life when she cares about her family. Father I thank you for your child that you have for her to share her life with. I pray that she will have abundant family life full of your favour. In Jesus Name, I believe.