Father, draw this man close to you and let him ask you to reveal what you would have in this relationship. Draw Penny close as well to hear your voice also. Let this couple pray together about where you would like this relationship to go. Let them understand that the adhesive that holds relationships together long term is not romantic love but being of one Spiritual accord. Let them determine if they are one of Spirit and if so then to allow them to develop together over time and understanding of their mental and emotional oneness. In Jesus name...Amen!