My ex is not saved and i am. We dated for a year until he felt that he cannot commit himself. I did not ask him to marry me, move in with me or have a child with me. He suddenly felt that he cannot trust me and is not even willing to try and build the trust. I'm not sure what his fear is but all I know is that it has a lot to do with his past. I love him and would like to be his future. He has a lot of bad habbits and i would like to help him walk away from them. I know that deep down he loves me, the only problem is that he has been hurt before and is not willing to go through the same pain again.

I pray that he allows himself to love me and to completely trust me. I pray that he makes peace with his past and let all that happen go. I pray that the good Lord cleanses his heart, wipes away the fear, teaches him to trust. I pray that he loves me unconditionally as i do and that he respects me and believes in us. I know everything is possible with God. Most of all I would like to be his support system, direct him to God (church), expose him to true affection and remind him of his worth on a daily basis.