adoring1 Wrote:Mel...I am not saying not to hope for reconciliation, but I am saying that for you to want that to happen, you have to be willing to understand...that God will not want that to happen UNTIL he is saved...as it goes against one of his commands to us and God cannot go against his own word! Satan could move this man to come back into your life today in his unsaved condition...but if you accepted him in that state...you do so at your own risk and peril. Until he is saved...he is not a candidate for a relationship with ANY Christian...that is all I am saying. What you do with that information is your choice of course...but do not for a moment believe that a relationship with an unsaved person is in the will of God or will be blessed of God...as it is not...and he warns us against it.

I am aware of that, which is why I am praying for his salvation too... not only because of the reconciliation prayer, but because... I just don't want him to go to Hell either... He's a smart, brave, and good person. A good friend indeed... I don't want him to suffer in Hell... He's already suffering enough here... I would give anything for his salvation, as well as my other friends who are either aren't saved or are saved but living in sinful conditions (bi-sexual, lesbian, homosexuals, etc. I do have friends of that nature as well). My exboyfriend is a very special person to me. And I would definitely want him saved... and for our relationship to be reconciled once he is. Our friendship, thanks to the break-up, is already shaky as is... and I don't want to lose the friendship, which won't be lost thankfully, let alone the chances of the relationship happening again. He is a special person to me. And I do not want this lost sheep and lost son of Christ remain lost... for this daughter of Christ (myself) wants to be with this son He created... and I do want him to be blessed and hear His voice... and for him to hear mine, with love, once more.