Remember that healing takes place in our hearts, that
GOD IS LOVE.
When one tries to FIX the mind or FIX the emotions often there is failure.
It is our hearts, that we love, so strengthen your heart, move, it is Act Ion (action), by our actions, love, "at all times."
as to the "m" word, I have not seen scripture that says this is sin, there is perversion, that is sin, fornication, is sin, lust, is sin.
Perversion would be doing something that is contrary to the natural laws, that would be in offense to GOD, hurting a child, hurting a spouse, parents, others, the perverting of.
Healing of heart, through THE FIRE, is denying that which is also displeasing to GOD. Make sure to study the scripture for the specifics. It is acting on, that which is on our minds, or in our emotions, that would be offensive to GOD. Stay in your heart, move about ACT (ION/ ACTION)), that it be pleasing to HIM.
I believe that our walk as CHRISTIANS there are tests.
We can be CHRISTIAN & then at times, there is a moment
that lifts us up into HIS ARMS FURTHER.