Father...speak to this man. Give him your direction. Move him beyond confusion to that place of Godly certainty. Once he receives a word from you let him summon the courage to do as you direct ...your will. Father assure him that when he hears from you and let's you direct his steps...he will experience your perfect peace. It is this peace that will allow him to know he should act on what it is in heart that you have placed there. You do not intend for our work to take precedence over our spouses or our children...the work of our hands should finance our lives and bless others...but never be an impediment to our first ministry...our mates. Show him your way Lord...In Jesus name...Amen!