Father, please draw Bellamia closer to your Father. Let her know that you will be her spouse and make provision for her and protect her and her child. Let her focus on your will and your ways Father that she might heal from this situation. Restore her joy, and help her to be the mother that you want her to be. Let her know that you have a plan for her life...and let her become quiet and wait on instructions from you. And when the healing is done...when she has become strong and whole again...if it be in your will to bring love into her life, please do so in the form of a Godly man whose steps are ordered by you. Father...humble this ex-husband down to the point that he is convicted in his heart of the fact that he needs a savior. Remove all protection from his life so that he has nowhere to turn but to you. Break the heart of stone that beats inside him by having him see himself and his wrong doing as you see him and have him cry out for forgiveness and invite your son into his heart. His behavior is reprehensible...but he is not beyond your redemption...in your mercy redeem him. In Jesus name...Amen!