Lord you said that you hate divorce. Yet only by adultry is it permitted. I know this womans heart as I have been through the same thing. Marriages born out of infedelity seldom prosper. I do not understand how a man or woman can through away his or her marriage. How it must grieve you Lord. I pray Lord that this man will come to his senses before it is too late. The whole family will suffer for this thoughtless act. Lord help the children in this situation for it is indeed devstating for them and the mom. I can only cry out for her Lord and ask that the husband will come to repentance and the wife will be able to forgive. The marriage can only be saved if all are willing to do so. In the mean time there is much pain for this family. Lord be their comfort and peace. Give this mom wisdom and strength to carry on. Carry her when she cannot carry herself. Help her Lord to lay her burdens down. Give her a support system and many who will be there for her during this crisis. In Jesus name I pray.